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Crazy Horse on when one person in a relationship outgrows the other

A relationship is at a crisis point when one of the people in it realises they are losing control of their partner due to the partner’s growth and they then try to control even more.

There is no celebration in this.

The partner who is growing will think that growth is bad for it displeases their partner. This thought will be in conflict with their feelings of exhilaration over their growth.

Where a partner has not changed themselves sufficiently to equal their partner who is growing and refuses to see that the problem is them, they will blame external people for their partner’s change and try to separate their partner from their teachers.

At this point the end of the relationship is nigh.

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